Today somebody asked me what 'activities' I was interested in - i.e. what did I do for a hobby in my spare time.
Sheeesh - all my time goes into basic survival. Work, keep house clean(ish), keep husband and child fed and clean(ish), keep pets alive. And that's it.
As I was driving home, I thought about this and realised that I am boring. Very boring. I don't do ANYTHING other than just get by. I never feel as if I have enough time to take on anything new.
Dan has surfing which requires some sacrifices. On both our parts. He sacrifices sleep since he gets up around 4ish to go out for a dawn session, and I sacrifice having him at home letting me sleep in/have spare time. But it's definitely worth it. He can be having a god awful time with life and work and his wife (!!!), and then he'll go surfing for a day and come home a totally different man. Well, not totally different, but definitely rejuvenated. It's his passion and I'm happy(ish) to give up my sleep-in's so that he can keep surfing.
So I need an interest too. Something outside of work and home and children. I'm losing myself in my mundane life and I need to find my own passion.
Now obviously I'm not about to start surfing. Not here. For many reasons:
- I'm not an idiot;
- I don't like the cold - and the water here is very cold (the surfers here put vaseline on their faces in winter to stop ice forming);
- I like sleeping in;
- I hate being held under water, and that happens a lot when you surf. Unless you're Kelly Slater. Actually, I think that even he gets dumped all the time.
Anyway, so I need an 'interest'. I do a bit of yoga, but only because I feel like I should - so that doesn't really count. I do this (blogging), but this is more like therapy than a hobby. I sometimes play WoW (and no I'm not 'finished' yet!), but I now just end up feeling that each quest is just yet another thing I need to do.
So - I'm open to suggestions. I'd like a really interesting hobby, that makes people think "Wow - she might be a Mum, and old, but She. Is. Cool".
PS - I'm not interested in sky-diving, though it ticks a lot of the 'cool hobby' boxes. I think it's more of an anti-lifestyle choice, and while my life may be kind of boring, I still like it very much thank you.
PPS - I'm also not interested in knitting. It would be very handy to be able to make my own sweaters etc, but it doesn't tick any boxes.